I taught there for years and yes, by now I’m able to have a Spanish conversation without miming to get my point across, or smiling and nodding blankly, but I still wouldn’t call myself fluent. Where did I go wrong, you ask? I’ll tell you. Read on to discover Five Surefire Ways Not to Learn a Language Abroad:
1. Don’t study the language before you go.
Feeling confident or just plain optimistic about your ability to soak in the language once you get there? So was I. I honestly didn’t spend too much time learning Spanish vocab or conjugations before I left for Costa Rica. I was from Florida, after all– it seemed like something that would come naturally to me. Wrong. In reality, even books, classes and study time won’t prepare you adequately for the real world of living and breathing a language, but they will at least give you a healthy head start.
2. Live alone.
It’s true that I was never that crazy about the idea of staying when a host family or roommate, but I sure wish I had at least done it in the beginning. There is nothing quite like being surrounded by Spanish speakers with whom you must communicate your everyday needs, to get your language skills off to a good start. Plus, as friendly as Costa Ricans are by nature, I know now I missed an opportunity not only for lots of patient conversation, but also for local friends. Good thing I brought my cat.
3. Hang out mostly with your English-speaking coworkers.
This is the easy road, for sure. Being plopped down in a foreign country with a group of other new teachers just like you makes it dangerously easy to live in a bubble. Stay there, and you’d be surprised how little of the local language you can actually learn. Watch yourself plateau impressively at cerveza and donde esta!
4. Better yet, date one of them.
Everyone knows the real trick to mastering a language is to take part in a one-on-one “language interchange” with a native speaker. Sometimes this leads to improved speaking skills, but more often it results in dating, romance or even all out love– which in turn can lead to an advanced level of language acquisition. On the other hand, spending all your one-on-one time with, say, a fellow English teacher from Nebraska… not quite as good for your espanol.
5. Be shy.
I know what you’re thinking—you can’t help it. That’s true, I couldn’t either, but my advice to you is to go against your nature. Learning a language means striking up conversations with people on buses, accepting invitations to family dinners, or even getting the nerve to try that salsa class at your school. You’ve got to be willing to put yourself out there if you want to become fluent in the language—and in the culture. So go ahead, reinvent yourself!